There is no shame in where a person is sexually, sex does not define us and for many who have had deep rooted issues it can be an incredibly difficult and challenging part of self to open up to, to be with.
But sexual energy is a thing- the nervous system extends down to the loins and much sexuality is in deep parts of the brain- the crotch of the brain.
They help me vicariously live out experiences I never had as a teen, like coping with a breakup, experiencing intimacy, parents giving the sex talk to their kids, etc.
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We also learn that when our sexual energy is smothered and controlled, it becomes twisted, distorted, and even dangerous look at all the priests who are charged with pedophilia and molestation of children.
I remember when I worked on oil rigs one summer, and when I was a painter and a laborer.
When we experience sexual repression it is common for us to feel undesirable, even ugly or unworthy.
While belly-dancing may not be for you, I recommend trying it out at least once seriously if you are a female.